I've heard that meebo is somewhat buggy and since it's still in beta, often gets overwhelmed and isn't quite functional: e-messenger, on the other hand, apparently has been around a while and is quite stable. Check it out and let me know what you think, unless of course, it's part of the chaff. ^_~

http://www.e-messenger.net/

I must admit though, I do like your suggestions, I'll have to try some of them!